Sexuality: facts and tips / This makes sex more fun for two:

Your sex life doesn't love just turning on a hamster wheel. Even if not everything that is new is super, it is worth keeping the tension by openness.

Being open to new ideas

Your sex life doesn't love uniformity. The same menu all the time just gets boring at some point. If you are open to trying new things, it will keep your sex life exciting. Please read our tips for sexual intercourse. Don't expect every new position or stimulation to be great straight away. Every sexual act needs to be practiced! If something really seems absurd to you, don't do it. But if you don't know for sure, try it. As a rule of thumb, you can say, "I'll try anything new three times." After that, you have an idea if it suits you. More tips for a more varied sex life can be found in the book Wild Thing by Paul Joannides.

Talk openly

Openness also means telling each other and showing what you need. Do you show and tell your partner what you need to get in the mood for sex? Or do you say what you want during sex? Or do you know what they need to get in the mood for sex, or what they want during sex? If no, ask them! Talking about sex can often work wonders. The sooner you practice, the better.

Being open to your own sexual fantasies

Most people fantasize about men or women who are NOT their partner during sex. Or they look after other people they like. Or their heart beats faster when hot guys or sexy women flirt with them. But as long as they don't actually want to go to bed with these people, it's just food for the joint sexual arousal: As long as you two are happy together.

Being open to masturbation

Openness also means that masturbation is allowed in a relationship. Both of you don't always have the same desire for sex, and you don't always have the possibility to have sex together. Masturbation becomes a substitute for sex because the sex between you doesn't work? Then something's wrong. You may also be interested in our tips for women and our tips for men.