My gf has asked me to finish in her mouth/on her face. Since I find the act degrading to a woman, I have declined.
I don't want to kink-shame. if these are somethings she actually enjoys, I might consider but if its something she thinks I might enjoy, I'm good.
Why would anyone want someone to finish in their mouth/on their face?
Is it the influence of porn or is it something one enjoys?
Also, if I do decide to go with it, are there any risks?
We are exclusive and clean.
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These are very valuable questions that you are asking. It is indeed a good idea to find out whether she enjoys it or if she thinks you would enjoy it. If none of you is interested in it, why would you do it?
It's not only a question of enjoyment though. She might as well not know yet if she will enjoy it, but is curious about it. So it's also about exploring your curiosities. Anyway, it's best to talk about these things.
By showing your interest and curiosity you are not kink-shaming but negotiating boundaries and desires as well as the meaning of a sexual scenario that you might want to share with each other. For you the scenario is about degrading women, it might have a different meaning for her or she might not have thought about it yet and you will find something out by having that conversation.
The fantasy can be inspired by porn but doesn't have to be. Sexual preferences are very individual. It's best to ask the person directly what it is they like about it rather than going with assumptions.
By risks you mean risks of infection? If you both have no STI you can't transmit any.
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